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Toy Review: Split Peaches Unicorn Horn


I recieved a Unicorn horn in exchange for a fair and honest review.

Today I was thinking about how much I LOVE this toy, and I thought about the review I was sure I did on it, only to realize there was nothing on my site that talked about it. Here is my overdue review of the Splitpeaches Unicorn Horn.

SplitPeaches has been an amazing company from the moment I started working with them. The owner Andy works hard to make great body safe products. His packaging tells the customer how to care for their products. When Andy comes up with a new design he talks to the internet for advise. This makes products that are perfect for as many people as possible.

🍑 SplitPeaches specializes in making silicone dongs without any vibration. The unicorn horn dong comes in multiple colours and is able to be used vaginally or anally. It comes in 3 sizes: Small, Medium and Large. It seems that some people in porn have featured this toy in there videos as well.

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The Toy:

Product: 🦄  Unicorn Horn Dong

Size: Small

Colour: Metallic Blue and purple

Material: Silicone

Suitable Lube: Water-Based

For use: Vaginally or Anally

My experience: 

The size small unicorn horn is an extremely pleasant size and the shape provides a perfect amount of pleasure. The twist of the horn has a ridge every cm and a half and it feels like it hits all the right spots no matter where I put it. Anally the ridges were just high enough to provide sensation but not cause any pain. This toy is one of my favourites, not only does it feel incredible but it also looks adorable. Half the time I bring it out of it’s storage just so I can tell my friends I have a unicorn horn.

This toy feels great on its own without any other toys. If you go slowly each ridge feels like a teasing re-entry. If you go fast it feels amazingly pleasant. Even though silicone can be quite hard I don’t find anything about this toy unpleasant. The size is perfect for my body. Even though I have many other thicker dongs, I wouldn’t of chose a wider one if a had a choice.

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Packaging:

The SplitPeaches Dong came to me in a cardboard box, the company that sent it was called “Dreamkey Media” and it was all kept very discreet. In the box I found cute purple gift wrap paper with the SplitPeaches logo hand pressed on to it. As Andy was sending me a review toy he put it in a bag he was trying out for store or bulk shipping. Normally he sends his toys in nice clear plastic cylinder but we discussed the packaging before it was mailed. My invoice was placed into a shiny purple envelope letting me know that the owner “Andy” himself had sent my order.

Overview: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5/5 Stars

Andy’s personal touch and strong customer relations means his product stands out from other dongs on the market. There are many companies who make dongs yet many don’t take the time to understand the customers as Andy does. Andy is always asking his bloggers for feedback about the products and accepts both good and bad reviews with open arms. I am always amazed by his work ethic. Because of this, his products are amazing, especcially the unicorn horn. I have no complaints about this product. It is clean cut and simple, body safe and easy to clean, and it feels amazing. 10/10 would recommend to anyone who wants a cute dong to add to there toy box.

Go to the SplitPeaches website and view the whole product line by clicking here.

The double dong, the witch and the wardrobe.

Actually it’s more like Miss Fai and her vagina to Narnia.

Recently I got back together with a partner from years ago. One of the long dreamt about fantasies was her using a strap on, on me. She had 2, one was a jelly double ended dildo, and the other was the silicone Tantus Feeldoe. When I got there her silicone toy was forgotten at the old house she was previously living at, and so the only option was the jelly toy, or no strap on. Curious what the fantasy would live out like, I let go of my strong views on jelly and my mind was absolutely blown.

For the first time ever my A-spot was stimulated. Over and over and over. As I got hornier and wetter I wanted deeper stimulation. I was unaware of how much of our double ended dildo that I was actually taking. Later she told me that about 10-11 inches of the toy were inserted. Holy shit! I was clearly embarrassed by my own bodies ability. But the reality is that it is normal for the vagina to increase in length when arroused. I heard this fact going through my head as I calmed down my embarrassment. She was amazed, and more impressed than anything.

I had such an amazing time with this toy that I continued to use it, despite the material, telling myself we would find a silicone alternative after my vacation. As I went to the Canadian and US sites to look for options I was filled with disappointment as all I could find were toys that were shaped completely different, or were made of jelly. In one case the toy was perfectly shaped, silicone, but way too small.

I took to Twitter to ask my fellow bloggers where I could get a silicone version.

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Luckily, as I had hoped, 4 great bloggers came to my rescue: @NatandTom_ @randomredrose @lil_bruises @juvenileadult They all suggested the 12 or 16 inch silicone option from Bondara, A UK based store that ships to Canada for about $10 CAD. The total CAD cost including shipping was $45 which is an amazing price.

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I don’t have any connection to Bondara and gain nothing by letting you all know about them, but I am so greatful that there is a body safe option, and certain I am not the only person looking for this specific item, that I wanted to let other people know.

If you would like to check out these dongs there are links below:

12 inch double dong from Bondara

16 inch double dong from Bondara

I look forward to recieving and trying the silicone option, and will be sure to review it once I have recieved it. I know my partner is amazing with this shape. I always used to think that other options were better, and if I had never of had this experience I may of stayed in ignorance for longer. As I have known forever, everyone is different, every body has different needs, every couple has different fantasies and wishes. Who am I to tell you what works best for your situation?

All my love,

Xoxo,

Whimsy Fai the Fairie

Toy Review: The We-Vibe Tango

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As a wand girl I always have the same issues. Wands aren’t portable and they are huge and heavy.

First, A story:

I had been working at the sex shop for a year and a month eyeing the WeVibe Tango daily. Anyone who wanted an extremely strong clitoral toy was immediately shown the Tango. I envied as guest after guest left the store. I joked that they could charge it in the car.

I get a 50% discount on everything I could get at my work, except for We-Vibe and Lelo products. I wanted the tango but I was working hard to pay my bills. I only for full time hours in August and had car repairs to pay for. Sometimes I buy things online instead of instore, this was certainly my plan for the Tango.

On Black Friday I found a good deal on the Tango from a Canadian site with free shipping. I put it in my cart, went to pay, and my paypal wasn’t working. Cruel travesty!  It seemed the Gods had denied me nirvana. I would forever settle for bulky toys and the bedroom.

I continued my weekend, slightly glad I was $90 dollars richer than I would have been. I figured I had missed the sale and began shiva for my dreams. On Monday I was resting thinking about my day off and what I would do and looking through my emails. I remembered that Cyber Monday was another great sales day and maybe, just maybe, the Tango would be on sale and my Paypal would work.

I went to the site, and the deal was still on. I was so happy! After my first attempt on Cyber Friday not working, I wasn’t certain it would work, I put some Sliquid Satin in my cart and proceeded to checkout. As I connected to Paypal I shut my eyes. Peaking through my fingers I saw the words: “Confirmation Number:”

I noticed later on that I had forgotten to press the option for one day shipping. I tracked my order as it came from a town 7 hours away and wished I could have driven to get it. On the next Monday I got the notification that read: “Out for Delivery” It was as if the sun was beating down on me, the wind rushed through my hair, I could barely make out the chirps of the birds as they said: “Go fuck yourself”.

I stayed home waiting, growing more excited than I thought I could ever be. The snow was horrible and I worried the delivery man wouldn’t make it. I refused to relieve the build up sexual tension with another toy. I sat waiting as it grew worse. Eventually I knew I had to go out. I got off in 2.5 seconds without a toy and wrote a note to the dildo deliverer to leave an option to pick up from the post office.

Returning home (I broke the speed limit to get there), I ran to the mailbox, grabbed my delivery card and there it said “Will be available tomorrow for pick up at 13:30”. I am no quitter, knowing the post office didnt close for another 20 minutes I hopped into the car and raced off to see if the person behind the cash would do me a favour and hand me it early. I walked up pretending I didnt have the delivery card said “I think there’s a package here for me” she got my name and handed me my box. I could hardly restrain my hands from opening it. Knowing I would later review the product I had to take a photo of the shipment first.

The shipment (Notice I am in the car)

The shipment (Notice I am in the car)

I took both my Sliquid and Tango out of the box and placed them into my backpack. As I walked into the house I placed my dinner into the  microwave and put my tango on charge. I took a photo of the box, and went to the We-Vibe website to register my warranty. This process took 2 minutes maximum.

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First Use:

After waiting days to have it ship and then hours for it to get to my house in the deep snow, I was more than prepared for the powerful Tango. Like a virgin male hiring a prostitute, I basically lost my cookies when the vibration turned on.

I started it on the first setting, Even this setting was rumbly and had deep intensity. Slowly I brought the setting up. I need strong intensity toys for self stimulation.

I had an extremely satisfying orgasm accompanied by squirting. I could easily hold onto it despite the amazing vibration. When you hold this toy in your hand it is so strong it spins. I believe it would win any vibrator race. (I will have to do one soon)

Continued Use:

The Tango has been the most amazing clitoral toy I have ever owned. It is small enough that I can wear it outside the house. I sometimes bring it with me for car quickies or a fast one on my break.

I brought it with me to a swingers club and it stimulated me while sitting in my underwear without any touching on my part. I have used it by holding it in my palm while letting the vibration transfer through my hand.
My friend lost hers and refused to believe it was gone. We both agree that it is an amazing toy and perfect for anyone who needs strong clitoral stimulation. (Update: she found it 2 months later)

More about the Tango:

– Waterproof
– One year warranty
– Made with ABS plastic
– Intense vibrations
– 8 settings (4 solid, 4 patterns)
– Optional G-spot or Anal plug attachment
– Rechargeable
– Use water based lubricant with it

Where to get it:
LoveHoney

Toy Review: Vibratex Mystic Wand

When I first talked to the owner of Venus Envy about doing a review for Venus Envy, she wanted to know if I would review the Vibratex Mystic Wand. Normally I am not a fan of battery operated clitoral toys. I have found the exception. Thank you for the chance to do this review.

I received the Vibratex Mystic Wand from Venus Envy Ottawa in exchange for an honest and fair review. 

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Specs:Materials: ABS, Silicone
Batteries: 4 AA (rechargeable wand available)
Functions: 6 modes: 3 vibration intensities and 3 patterns
Volume: Low (Barely noticed an arms length away from body)
Optional Wand Attachments
Compatible with Water Based Lubricant

Pros:

  • Silicone Head
  • AA operation lasts long time
  • Easy to control
  • Comes with storage bag
  • Fits well to body
  • Intense Rumbly Vibes
  • Shower Friendly (Splash resistant)
  • Light weight

Cons:

  •  Head is not removable
  • Uses disposable batteries
  • Bright light on wand

The Vibratex Mystic Wand is a true wand. I was skeptical about a battery operated wand, so much so that before I agreed to review it I stopped by Venus Envy to check it out in person. The rumbly vibrations seemed satisfactory and I was in, it takes 4 AA’s. Surprisingly it has the same strength as my other rechargeable mid sized wand, the Please Satisfy Wand. This excited me since one of the saddest things about my rechargeable wand is when it dies I have to wait a minimum of 30 mins and by then I am off doing other things.

I got home and took it out of the box and compared it to my Please Satisfy Wand, and it’s head was slightly larger. I went through the settings I noticed that it starts out low with a green light, followed by an orange light for the middle setting, and on the 3rd function, the strongest setting, there was a red indicator light. The next 3 functions were patterns, The first one pulsed in short medium strength vibrations ( – – – – – – ) the second was two short beats followed by one longer ( – – — – – — ) the third vibration pattern is a solid vibration that escalates slowly from off to high.

Using a mid sized wand with this much power was a great experience. It was small enough that it easily fit to my body and targeted the clitoris. It is also light enough that it didn’t take much effort to hold. I found that I could still use it to provide added stimulation by moving the wand on my clit. A great feature of this wand is that you can purchase wand attachments for it so that you can use the strong vibrations internally. The attachment made specific to this toy is a rabbit style, providing internal stimulation as well as clitoral.

I am surprised by the fact that this wand has lasted as long as it has with the batteries I first put in it. Shout out to Panasonic. I fully expected to go through a set of batteries each time I used the wand for 30 mins. Clearly Vibratex must of put some thought into the making of this toy. It manages to remain strong, while not burning through batteries in the process.

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Comparison of Full sized Pink BOB wand, Vibratex Mystic wand and mid sized Please Mini wand

If you are looking for the perfect battery operated mid-sized wand that fits easily to your body, I recommend the Vibratex Mystic Wand. I know many people who have kids don’t like having toys charging and opt for the battery operated versions. This option will not disappoint. I have seen other options on the market and they do get close to living up to power of this toy.

This toy is available for $89.95 on the Venus Envy website, and if you can make it into the Ottawa or Halifax store, you can get it for $89.95 without having to wait for the item to shipping. I always recommend going in store if it is an option so you can get a first hand look of the toys before deciding to purchase. This is the reason I started blogging, so that people who didn’t have access to stores with educated staff could learn more about the purchases they want to make.

Venus Envy Ottawa:

Venus Envy’s staff were knowledgeable and inclusive. The walls each had labels to let people know what each section was all about. With my Vibratex Mystic Wand I received an information paper to tell me about my warranty and necessary batteries. They sell a variety of gender expression items, including a variety of cyber skin and silicone packers, binders and gaffs, as well as stand-to-pee devices.

As well as having inclusive products, Venus Envy also has workshops, so that everyone who wants to go to a workshop can, they are also sliding scale so that the attendee pays what they can.

Despite being a small store Venus Envy has a huge selection of stock. Each item they sell has a display model for customers to get a great idea of the product. All ready to turn on, making the experience easier for shy visitors.

Recently someone under the age of 18 had walked into Venus Envy to purchase a binder. (Chest restraint to flatten breasts). When their parents found out Venus Envy got in a bit of trouble. Since this happened Venus Envy has removed porn from the store making it okay for people of all ages to enter. This action proves Venus Envy’s true ideals. Not only does Venus Envy make the purchase of these items easier for all, they also have an initiative to help people to get binders and gaffs if they can’t afford it. If you want to donate to this effort you can go here. It is clear that Venus Envy is a store for everyone to feel safe and comfortable.

Venus Envy Ottawa is located in Ottawa’s LGBTQ village on Bank street. Venus Envy has a second location in Halifax if you can make it there, as well as being online at Venusenvy.ca.   Both stores are LGBTQ+ friendly, and accessible so all are welcome.

Links:

Venus Envy dot Ca

Pay it forward: Buy a Binder/Give a gaff

Vibratex Mystic Wand

 

Jo All-in-One Massage Glide & Personal Lubricant

 

System JO Massage All-in-One Personal Lubricant 1.0 fl. oz

I purchased JO All-in-one Massage Glide on a particularly hot and humid day when my skin kept rubbing against each other. I needed something to help decrease friction, without spending tons of money. I went to a little sex shop and purchased it for $11 CAD. This saved me, and luckily for me, it gave me an excuse to write a review.

The one problem I encountered with JO massage glide is that I couldn’t use it with any of my toys, except for my Doc Johnson Ripply Butt Plug, as most of my collection is now silicone. As mentioned in previous posts, never use a silicone toy with a silicone lubricant, this will break down the toy.

JO all-in-one worked great, it stayed slippery for a while, majorly decreased friction, and didn’t feel sticky. I absolutely loved it, as the first silicone lube I have ever owned, I am glad to have bought it.

This glide’s thickness was good, it was neither watery nor goopy. It had a medium thickness that swayed toward the thinner side. It could cause a mess, but its not going to be shockingly thin and go everywhere very easily. On that note, This is definitely not a lube you want to keep in your purse. One of the only problems I really had with this was the packaging made it easy for lubricant to escape, and while grabbing my hair band out of my bag I found my bag’s contents to be quite slippery.

Features:

  • Versatile: Internal and External Use
  • Scent-free
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Latex safe

Pros:

  • Great for sexual massages
  • Stays slick for long time
  • No stickiness
  • Great for showers
  • Great Price point

Cons:

  • Silicone Based so it cannot be used with silicone toys
  • Not safe for Polyurethane condoms
  • Hard to clean off materials
  • Two ingredients can have health and environmental hazards

Ingredient breakdown:

Cyclotetrasiloxane: Can accumulate in aquatic organisms and act as a hormone disruptor. It also causes interference with hormone function in humans. There is a possibility that it can cause impaired fertility.

Cyclopentasiloxane: Similar to cyclotetrasiloxane, accumulates in aquatic organisms as hormone disruptor, also causing interference with hormone function in humans. Cyclopentasiloxane can cause uterine tumours and harm the reproductive and immune system. Lastly, Cyclopentasilixane may influence neurotransmitters in the nervous system.

Ingredient Information Source: Environment Canada & David Suzuki

Purchasing:

JO Massage Glide is available here for $7.99:
System JO Massage All-in-One Personal Lubricant 1.0 fl. oz
from: Lovehoney Ltd

Tips:

  • Use a towel or something you don’t mind getting stained underneath you
  • If it spills on a material you care about (Bed sheets, lingerie, etc.) Use warm soapy water immediately to clean. If residue remains use rubbing alcohol on stain, then wash according to washing instructions immediately. (Source: System JO)

Toy Review: Tantus Slick

I received the small and large slick by Tantus in exchange for an honest unbiased review. 

Tantus Slick

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Pros:

  • Dual Density Silicone (Feels real)
  • Solid inner code with soft outer silicone layer
  • Strap on compatible
  • G-spot curve / P-spot curve
  • 2 size options
  • Easy to clean

Cons:

  • Not suction cup compatible
  • No vibration

This was my first experience with a non vibrating dong…

And I think I’ve fallen in love.

Dual density silicone is one of the most amazing things I have ever experienced. Tantus’ silicone is second to none to begin with. The invention of dual density silicone solves an important problem, people who choose porous jelly over silicone because of the squishy aspect of it. Before I knew much about sex toys, and Tantus, I couldn’t believe that dual density silicone was real silicone. Lucky it is, and I am grateful for such luxurious body friendly options. I got spoiled my this product, it’s hard to imagine going back to vibrating toys, as well as to any non dual density silicone.

Use:

It turns out I love both of these, small and large. They are both curved with a pronounced “head” that adds sensation.

The Tantus Slick quickly became one of my favourite toys for internal stimulation, if not my absolute favourite. It has definitely become my go-to toy.

No matter how well you get to know your body there is always something new to try out, this toy review is a prime example of how I was pretty sure I needed internal vibration to orgasm, and was proved wrong. I did use clitoral stimulation to increase the sensitivity of my g-spot (recommended for anyone who wants a g-spot orgasm). I squirted which is something I have never done on my own before.

Design:

The Tantus Slick small is great for anyone who prefers thinner shorter dongs, that penetrate the g-spot area. It feels just as good as the large version, the only difference being the large provides a feeling of fullness that many people enjoy.

The Tantus raised letters on each Tantus Slick made it easy to make sure the curve of the Slick was hitting the right spots.

Last but not least the Dual Density silicone provides a semi solid core (so it isnt limp) with a soft outer silicone layer. This is an amazing feature of this toy.

Cleaning:

There are many ways to clean Tantus toys:

  • Boil them to clean and sanitize
  • Use hypoallergenic soap and water and rinse
  • Use toy cleaner
  • Place in dishwasher (I don’t recommend this as dish washers tend to hold bacteria)
  • You can bleach it, but you don’t need to.

Wrap Up:

This toy is perfect for anyone who is trying out a dong for the first time, or is moving from a jelly toy to a body safe option. The squishyness is excellent and if your used to Jelly you will absolutely love this. No smells, super easy to clean and feels amazing beyond belief.

If you like the feeling of fullness go with the large slick. I personally enjoyed “warming up” with the small slick, and then going for the larger one. As a woman gets turned on her vaginal muscles relax, that is why at first some toys seem like a challenge and later on are no big deal. Both these sizes provided intense g-spot stimulation.

For Anal use:

I recommend starting off with the small slick, It has a great shape for prostate stimulation. It is great for use with a strap on, and the dual density silicone provides amazing sensation

Ratings:

Material: 10/10
Stimulation 8.9/10 (It wasn’t a crazy amount of curves or bumps, but dual density is amazing)

If I could have added anything to this toy I would add a suction cup, But there are always other Tantus products that have that.

Self Discover,
Whimsy Fai. <3

For a 15% discount on all Tantus products, use discount code WHIMSYXXXFAIRIE15 at checkout <3

Current Tantus Promos:

Buy a Tantus product and get a grab bag 50% off (Throughout May 2016)

 

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Vintage Toys at vintage prices (AMAZING)

While stock last

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Toy Review: MyStim Electric Eric BLACK EDITION

 

About a month ago I wrote a post called “My Dream Toys” where Electric Eric was featured as my 3rd dream toy. As a person who follows her dreams, I reached out to MyStim and asked them about doing a review for them.

So… Without further to do…

I received the MyStim Electric Eric BLACK EDITION for free from MyStim in exchange for an unbiased and honest review.


First Impressions:

Upon receiving the Electric Eric, The first thing I did was admire the packaging. The box contained a black hard case with a zipper. In the zippered case lay the Electric Eric, A magnetic charger shaped to fit perfectly onto the MyStim logo on the front of the vibrator, a little manual, conducive gel, and water based lube. The new look of the black edition electric Eric is way sleeker than the regular black and white version.

Turning it on, I walked into the party my roommate was having and started a game of: “What intensity can you hold onto the dildo with your hands?” 2/7 people only held on to the dildo until it was at setting 7, the rest of the room clenched their teeth and held on until at setting 10. Seeing as I was one of the wimps who bailed at 7. I was a bit nervous to test it out properly, at the same time, I couldn’t wait.


 

The Real Test:

The instructions are simple:

  • Insert toy before turning on e-stim function, this allows you to achieve best intensity, and make sure to turn off e-stim before removal
  • If you have an electric/metal implant and/or heart problems or arrhythmia consult a doctor first
  • Read the manual before use

Alright. Go time.

  1. Put lube on toy
  2. Place toy in vagina
  3. Turn e-stim on
  4. Question what I got myself into
  5. Turned it up slowly… all the way to 10

Despite being unable to go past 7 while holding it in my hand, I was pretty quickly able to bring the e-stim up to 10 while inside me. The sensation of e-stim is one of the hardest things to describe. E-stim lets you feel your muscles contract, I think my favourite modes were the escalating option, this was a favourite because it allowed you to really feel the e-stim in action.

As for Vibration:

I would give this toy a 6/10 on the vibration scale, it was very similar to the vibration intensity of my Aria Lotus Flutter, yet rumbly as apposed to buzzy. The Electric Eric has 2 vibrating motors, one near the tip and one closer to the middle. When vibration was used as well as e-stim that was my favourite, especially the kegal exercise function.

Pros:

  • Made from silicone
  • Great introductory estim toy
  • Rechargeable
  • Vibration option (2 vibrating motors)
  • Kegal exerciser
  • 2 year manufacturers warranty
  • 3 hour battery life on high settings (True story)
  • No visible metal pads (they are somehow under the silicone)
  • Waterproof

Cons:

  • Kegal setting can be hard to find (Press the e-stim button 6 times until light goes green)
  • Vibration is a moderate intensity

This toy charges using a magnetic USB charger. You don’t need anything extra to make the toy work, unlike some e-stim toys you do not need a electrostimulation device or wires. Such an amazing toy for the adventurous toy user.

Does it hurt?

The simple answer is no. It feels different, and you have control over what e-stim setting you like it at. For me, even at the highest setting it was tingly and provided nice feeling muscle contractions.


 

Kegal Program:

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This is my favourite setting, especially when you add in vibration. I actually really loved this function. Not only am I bettering my vaginal health, but it feels amazing.

To get to this function press the e-stim button and go to the 6th option. The light will change to a green colour to tell you it is on. Turn up e-stim to desired setting once in this mode. Either use vibration, or don’t, your choice. To leave this mode press the e-stim button, or press and hold to turn off e-stim all together.


Cleaning:

To clean you can use toy cleaner wait 3 minutes and rinse off. This is my preferred method. If you don’t own toy cleaner you can use a hypoallergenic antibacterial soap. Always let air dry.

Purchasing Information:

If you are interested in purchasing the Electric Eric by mystim Wicked Butterfly sells the original here.

For the black edition visit Mystim here.

Adventure on,

Whimsy Fai <3

Periods: Cramping & Sex

Seeing as for one week of the month I, as well as the majority of the female population go through their period, I’ve decided that this is the subject I would talk about for Monday. Cause nothing is more fun then starting off Monday morning with Aunt Flow. Lordy save me now.

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Cramps

Most people know the basics:

  • Use a heating pad on lower abdomen
  • Take ibuprofen or another over the counter pain medication
  • Massaging abdomen lightly
  • If cramps are typically unmanageable, seeing your doctor and going on birth control may help.

Exercise:

Some people love it and other people know that there is no way in hell they are getting out of bed or doing any movement besides pouring a tea. Exercise is said to help cramping, especially when done regularly, or prior to start of period. Even light stretching can make things feel more relaxed.

Sexercise anyone?:

If you’re not too afraid to have sexual intercourse during your period this may help alleviate the pain. If you want to avoid the mess, you can use a sea sponge (You can find them online if not in your drug store). I recommend these as a single use item. If you don’t want to heed that advise, you can reuse some of them by cleaning and then boiling. They only last about 30 minutes.

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Other things to look into in regards to periods:

  • Use of essential oils for pain: Marjoram, Clary Sage, Lavender, Geranium, Chamomile, Eucalyptus, Rose, Ylang-Ylang, Pure Turmeric, Yarrow, Clove, Cinnamon, Peppermint, Motherwort, Ginger
  • Teas and Special Teas, Such as Mighty Aphrodite from David’s Tea.
  • Meditation: Breathing through the pain, accepting it, and not wishing it away can make pain easier to deal with. (Oh no, Whimsy’s Yogi side is showing!)

Sources:

  • Info on Essential Oils: http://www.md-health.com/Essential-Oils-for-Menstrual-Cramps.html

If you have more questions or suggestions email me at [email protected]

Sending my love,
Whimsy Fai <3

Toy Review: LOE Kegal Ball Set

 

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This is the set I chose to be my first ever Kegal set. The benefits of Kegal exercisers are numberous and I wanted to experience it.

As kegal balls regained popularity with 50 shades, I would like to say, either Anastasia had started off with a sex to tighten her kegal muscles or she somehow had amazingly strong kegal muscles to being with. The way its portrayed in 50 shades isn’t the way most women can use them in the beginning.

A beginner of Kegal balls should first use:

  • Larger slightly weighted balls – The size makes it easier to hold onto, while the weight makes it an exercise to keep the balls in.
  • The balls shouldn’t be too large
  • Never start with small heavy metal balls

Benefits of Kegal exercises:

  • Strengthen pelvic floor muscles (no more accidentally urination)
  • Tighten vagina
  • Increases ability to have strong orgasms
  • Get to know body better
  • The natural vibration of Kegal balls can provide pleasure

About LOE:

Pros:

  • Balls and holder are both made out of non porous body safe silicone
  • The weight is perfect for beginners
  • Slowly work towards use of smaller Kegal balls
  • Two different weight and size options

Cons:

  • I found the larger balls to be too large for me, they tried to fall out because of lack of room for them.
  • Drastic size difference between bigger and smaller kegal balls

I don’t regret getting this set as my first ever set, but if I were to but another set I would probably buy the LELO kegal set, or Geisha Balls.

About coconut oil

Articles from Good Clean Love:

4 Reasons not to use coconut oil as lube

Reconsidering Coconut oil as lube  

Dear Good Clean Love, Thank you.

Before reading this article I was unsure as to why people shouldn’t use coconut oil for lube. As a concerned consumer who cares  about what goes into and onto my body, at first glance, coconut oil seemed great. Despite the fact that I couldn’t use it with condoms. Reading your first article started the conversation with my customers to find out if coconut oil was working for them.

As read, coconut oil doesn’t just kill bad bacteria, so one of the questions I ask my customers who use coconut oil is: Are you getting infections? If so, it may be because the coconut oil is killing the good bacteria and not leaving them there to fight for your vagina happiness.

The second question is: Are you using condoms? If so, it is recommended that you don’t use coconut oil as lube, as it isn’t condom compatible (this includes polyurethane condoms)

So, Good Clean Love. Thank you for saying what no one else felt bold enough to say. Basically, if it works for you, keep using it, but if you notice you’re having problems related to it concider switching to an organic and natural lube; such as Good Clean Love.

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