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Toy Review: LOE Kegal Ball Set



This is the set I chose to be my first ever Kegal set. The benefits of Kegal exercisers are numberous and I wanted to experience it.

As kegal balls regained popularity with 50 shades, I would like to say, either Anastasia had started off with a sex to tighten her kegal muscles or she somehow had amazingly strong kegal muscles to being with. The way its portrayed in 50 shades isn’t the way most women can use them in the beginning.

A beginner of Kegal balls should first use:

  • Larger slightly weighted balls – The size makes it easier to hold onto, while the weight makes it an exercise to keep the balls in.
  • The balls shouldn’t be too large
  • Never start with small heavy metal balls

Benefits of Kegal exercises:

  • Strengthen pelvic floor muscles (no more accidentally urination)
  • Tighten vagina
  • Increases ability to have strong orgasms
  • Get to know body better
  • The natural vibration of Kegal balls can provide pleasure

About LOE:


  • Balls and holder are both made out of non porous body safe silicone
  • The weight is perfect for beginners
  • Slowly work towards use of smaller Kegal balls
  • Two different weight and size options


  • I found the larger balls to be too large for me, they tried to fall out because of lack of room for them.
  • Drastic size difference between bigger and smaller kegal balls

I don’t regret getting this set as my first ever set, but if I were to but another set I would probably buy the LELO kegal set, or Geisha Balls.

Toy Review: Dos Sexy

I bought this on a whim. Since I like stimulation on both sides of my clitorous I decided to give this versatile toy a shot.

The features of this toy are:

  • Two bullets with independant controls on each.
  • Removable silicone sleeve on bullets connecting them (9″tether)
  • First set of batteries come with it


  • Good for any experience level. Use simply for beginners or get as creative as you like as a pro.
  • Uses batteries so no need to wait to recharge.
  • Silicone sleeve is non porous, and bullets are made out of hard plastic


  • Bullets batteries notoriously die after an hour of use, uses watch batteries which are a pain in the butt to put in.
  • Bullets are better on there own for clitoral stimulation.
  • Clitoral only (I wouldnt trust the tether for anal use, nor is the product waterproof

Vibration level: 3/5

Bullets have multiple settings (3 speeds, 7 pulsation and escalations)

Overall rating: 2/5

Due to the short life time of batteries, the nature of the toy not to be waterproof, the fact the silicone tether proves pointless for single person use, I give this toy a 2 out of 5. It’s 2 bullets, what more could I really expect.


My Dream Toys

imageI think everyone who has ever researched the different adult toys available has a list of dream toys, and I know that anyone who has been around me long enough knows that I have atleast 3 that I want but don’t own. So for anyone who wants to fall in love with some toys. I’ve composed a list of my top 5 dream toys, along with the pros and cons that I am aware of.

LELO Ina Wave


This is the long time favourite. It is a dual motor internal and clitoral stimulator. Not only this, but as the name suggests, it waves, the longer internal part will press against the G-spot and then release. Available at LELO.com


  • Vibration both internally and on the clit
  • Natural movement (That doesn’t quit when pressure is applied to prevent it from doing so)
  • Rechargeable
  • Made from silicone
  • 1 year warranty from LELO
  • Waterproof


  • Can take a while to charge (but you can use it while its charging)

Jimmy Jane: Form 2

This is a clitoral stimulation toy by Jimmy Jane. It features 2 motors to use on each side of the clitorous. It has 5 vibration intensitys and 4 settings. Each setting on it provides the user an experience similar to the way oral sex stimulates the clit. Unlike many toys that pulse and leave you missing the vibration, this toy just moves it to a new place on your clit.


  • Waterproof
  • Three year limited warranty
  • Dual motors
  • Made from Silicone
  • Rechargeable


  • External use only, not intended for internal use

MyStim Electric Eric:


I play a game at work with couples called what setting of E-Stim can you hold on till. People have a perception of e-stim that it is extreme and painful. Reality is, or atleast when held with hands, it starts of as a tingly feeling. It is not nearly as scary as it seems. I will be checking this toy out soon, I am so excited for this as it is my 3rd toy on my list.


  • Good starter estim toy, first settings are more reasonable for beginners
  • Silicone coated electro stim pads
  • Option of vibration
  • Kegal exerciser
  • Rechargeable
  • 2 year warranty


  • Lower vibration than some vibration based toys

FUN Bi Stronic:

Lets just call the Bi Stronic “Mr. Trudeau”, skip dinner and get to the action. This toy is basically hands free. Thrusts like natural moments and has clitoral vibration, leaving you free to fantasize, read, sext, or whatever else you want to do.

Sorry Mr. Trudeau, gotta keep the economy going.


  • Does everything for you
  • Silicone
  • 2 year warranty
  • Rechargeable
  • Clitoral vibration
  • Natural Thrusting (I have no clue how they do it)


  • High Price

WeVibe Tango:

This Canadian company shares my area code, and if thats not enough to warm my heart, the WeVibe Tango has the strongest vibrations of any toy I have ever seen, not including the magic wand, which seems equivalent, but in a less hummy way. This toy also has an optional “Pleasure mate” kit that you can buy to enhance the options of the bullet. This kit comes with “glow” a silicone G-spot stimulation tool, and “dusk” a silicone anal plug perfect for beginners.


  • INTENSE VIBRATION (4 vibration settings)
  • Versatile
  • Silicone attachments  (Yey body safe!)
  • Hard plastic body (Non porous)
  • Rechargeable
  • One year warranty
  • Canadian 🙂 Yey!


  • Silicone lube shouldn’t be used with silicone anal tool (or any silicone toy)

Toy Review: Vilain Audre

This was given to me free of charge by Blush Novelties for an honest non-bias review.


Blush Novelties: Vilain Audre Review

First Impression:

Like most online shoppers, the first impression of this toy was from information posted on the toys webpage.

The key points I recieved on this product was it is:

  • Pure Silicone
  • Available in pink and black
  • Rechargeable
  • 5 Year Warranty
  • Many vibration settings
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper Quiet
  • Intended for G-spot stimulation

What a wonderful toy to explore with.

The shipping took only 6 days from the day it was sent out. I was ecstatic to see the box in the mail. Blush novelties is a company located in New York, and I live in Canada, so I fully expected to wait longer.


Adorable packaging

Pros and Cons:


  • Extremely intense vibrations
  • 7 vibration options (3 solid speeds)
  • Silicone (Body safe, Latex free, Non porous, Hypoallergenic)
  • Rechargable (Who likes batteries?)
  • 5 Year Global Warrenty (WHO ARE THESE AMAZING PEOPLE?)
  • Great easy to access packaging
  • G-spot curve
  • Uses common toy charger


  • Not for people who like light to moderate vibrations (I’m not part of that club)
  • Not for use with silicone lube, use only water based or hybrid
  • Do not use anally, unless you keep a good hold on it (See All about anal)

Please Contact @Whimsyxxxfairie if seen.

Different Uses: 

  • Clitorally – The Vilain Audre has strong vibration throughout, but it is concentrated into the end of the toy, allowing it to make a great strong clitoral stimulator. Seeing as most women can’t have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation, this is a great option. Using this to stimulate the clitorous prior to penetration, helps swell the G-spot which makes it much easier to find.
  • Internal/G-spot: This toy is soft yet sturdy enough to do an amazing job hitting the G-Spot. The shape is a classic G-spot design which is a favourite for many explorers. With three modes of strong vibration, this toy makes G-spot play fun and satisfying.


Rating: 5/5

The Vilain Audre rises above the rest. It has superior vibration that shocked me at first touch. The low speed beats the high speed of many of my favourite toys. It features a five year warranty and no need for batteries, the Vilain Audre by Blush Novelties is an amazing toy, and a competitor with many premium brands.

More information from Blush Novelties

Get empowered,

~ Whimsy <3


Toy Review & Guide: Revive Fabulous Rabbit

This toy was given to me free of charge from Blush novelties for an honest non-bias review.

Versatile, build-your-own-adventure…

Revive Fabulous Rabbit

It’s adorable! And partially discreet.


Pros and Cons:


  • Silicone
  • Rechargable
  • Waterproof
  • Dual Motor
  • Versatile
  • Great Vibration
  • 30 Day Warranty
  • Easy to use
  • 10 Vibration Settings (3 intensitys, 7 pulsation and escalation settings)


  • Vibration stronger on outside of ears
  • Too large for full insertion for some people

This toy has one button, it turns it on, changes the vibration, and when pressed and held turns it off, it has very easy operation. I was first interested in this toy because I recognized how versatile it could be. This is  a great toy for anyone at any stage of their sexual exploration. It can be used as simple or as exploratively as you wish. It has a great vibration to it. If you use it lightly it has a tickly vibration but when placed solidly it has a deep vibration.

The multitude of uses for this toy are:

  • Clitoral
  • Internal
  • Internal and clitoral
  • Internal and anal
  • Anal

Clitoral Stimulation:

Clitorally it can be used in many ways.

  1. Dual Stimulation: The dual motors stimulate the clit fully, firstly its 3 strengths of vibration allow for straight uninterrupted stimulation. Then the next 7 pulsations really do stimulate similar to the way oral sex stimulates. Especially when you place each of the ears on each side of the clit.
  2. Grazing Stimulation: Using the tips of the bunny ears to stimulate the clit provides a strong tickly vibration. It can also be used on other parts of the body as a part of foreplay.
  3. Direct Stimulation: The outer parts of the ears have the strongest vibration, if you just want direct, strong, uninterrupted vibration, similar to that of a bullet, placing it on its side with one ear on top of the other, and using one ear to stimulate makes this easy.

Internal Use:

  1. Going all in: If your feeling adventurous, placing both ears internally, with one resting on the g-spot (belly button side of kitty) and the other laying beneath it, will allow for it to push against the walls and g-spot bringing optimal vibration throughout.
  2. The rabbit: With the power button facing the front of the body, place one ear on the clitoris and the other internally. The best part about this method with this toy is the shape makes it so it hits the g-spot internally. As you move the ear on the clitoris it moves internally as well.
  3. Adventuring south: Not for the more modest or traditional, this method allows for anal stimulation. Place one ear internally and the other on the anal entrance or into the anus. You may have to sacrifice internal vaginal stimulation if you want deeper anal penetration.


  • Well this is straight forward, literally. Slowly ease in one or both ears, but don’t do more than you can handle.

This toy does have a 30 day warranty, so if anything happens, you don’t have to worry.

It’s got a great price and is an amazingly fun toy. Check it out here.

Play on,
~Whimsy <3



When you are first choosing your strap on there are a few things to consider, here are a few:

  1. Get a strap-on that fits you snuggly, one that wont move much, or be so tight it cuts off circulation.
  2. Be aware of what type of dong your strap on is suitable for. Espessially if ordering online.
  3. If buying in store, and buying a dong seperately for your strap-on, ask if you can see if it fits before you leave.
  4. If buying online, buy one that comes with a compatible dong, or buy extra  o-rings (if your strap-on uses this system)


Different strap-ons, and dong types:

For Women:



The classical strap-on uses different sized o-rings to hold dongs that have a base to them. You can buy more o-ring sizes seperately to fit your dong. There are many materials that o-rings, strap-ons and dongs are made out of. Many classical strap-ons use adjustable straps to fit different body sizes, while others are fitted using sizes such as small, medium, and large. When choosing a sized product, try and go for one that is snug to your body.


Vac-U-lock Strap-ons:

These are for use with dongs that dont have a base to them, but are compatible with vac u lock plugs. You can also use vac-u-lock dongs with a classic strap on. But regular strap ons may not fit properly into a vac-u-lock strap on.




These allow both partners to feel pleasure from the strap on experience. The downfall to these is that they can fall out of the vagina during use. If you want to use this, and find this problem is happening, using Kegal exercisers may help you to hold onto your strap on better.

For men:

Hallow strap ons:

Guys can use classical strap-ons if they wish, using a hallow dong.


Double penetration strap-ons:

These strap-ons give men space for there penis so that they can do double penetration. With this system, I strongly suggest using silicone o rings, or a cock ring you presently use in the opening you place your penis in. If you use a metal o-ring and it is too small for your penis to take off with an erection, you can get stuck.


O rings:

These come in different sizes for different dong sizes. You want to use an o ring that fits tightly to your dong.

Rubber, Silicone, and other soft rings:

These make it easier to fit your dong in them. They stretch out so you can manipulate them onto the dong. Over time they will stretch out slightly.


These will not stretch out over time, but make the process of fitting a dong in harder.


Happy Strapping,

Whimsy Fai. <3

Basic Guide to Non vibe Cock Rings

Safety: First things first. Do not wear a cockring for longer than 30 minutes. Remote after thirty minutes to allow circulation, then after a couple minutes you can put it back on in need be. 

Unless you know the size of cockring you will need while erect to allow for removal, do not use a metal or other solid unstretchy/unbreakable ting.

Why people use cockrings:

  • Helps men stay erect longer
  • Makes male orgasm stronger
  • Vibrating rings add sensation for both partners
  • Added support


Above are examples of good options for beginners.

The most basic are the U-Ring by Forta. This one is made out of jelly material and is low priced. These are great for a first time use. The jelly material is stretchy so it fits just about everyone, and the design is simple making it easy to wear. You can either place at bottom of penis, above the testicals, or under the testicals, as shown.


I don’t suggest this one if you are a cock ring pro, over time jelly stretches out. It is also porous so it takes in bacteria.





If you are looking for a basic cockring that wont over stretch or gather bacteria, thus making it useful for longer, your best bet is using silicone cock rings.


Cock rings with “wings” or two loops on the side, as seen here, are not as complicated as they can look. These are made so that they can be put on without accidentally snapping it on causing pain.

Story Time: One day I was at work, telling a couple about this, and the woman told me that after a couple glasses of wine, this really does happen. That’s not the best way to keep the mood going.

These cockrings are available in a variety of material.

Cleaning & Storing your toys

So, this week I learned I am moving at the end of the week. So I decided this blog post would be all about storing and cleaning toys.

To start, the best thing to use to clean your toys is an antibacterial toy cleaner from your toy store. These are specially made to get in the pores of any of your porous toys. They also do not reactivate easily so if you do manage to not rinse it all off you wont have bubbles coming out of the kitty area after it gets wet.

Using Toy Cleaners:

Most toy cleaners can be used by spraying on, leaving for 3 minutes, and rinsing off. Let air dry (as to not leave bacteria or pieces of fuzz or what-have-you on it)

If your toy is a Cyberskin or UR3 toy, the best next action is to place in cornstarch or UR3 powder after to bring back the skin like softness.

Cleaning without toy cleaner:

Use an antibacterial clear soap with:

  • No colour
  • No alcohol
  • No scent

or you know, just buy toy cleaner.

Soap doesnt rinse off as well as toy cleaner and can refoam up.


Store toys out of direct sunlight, and keep them seperated. Do not let a jelly toy touch a jelly toy, or silicone next to silicone. Store lube seperately. Especcially if you have silicone lube.

Toy Review: Doc Johnson Ripply Bubble Butt


I always knew I was a bit nerdy, and despite my enjoyment of chess, I never could of forseen placing an over sized pawn up my bum.

I bought this toy for 3 reasons:

  1. It was 9.99 and I had a budget
  2. It seemed to be the same size as my current toy
  3. It was a safe anal toy (with a flair at the end so the inner sphincter can’t steal it.

This is an anal toy good for an intermediate anal toy user. It doesn’t feature a tapered end or a dent before the flair so it wouldnt be good for a beginner.


  • Safe Anal Toy
  • Squishy material
  • Medium size
  • Made from Jelly (can use any lube on it)
  • Looks like a pawn 😉
  • Great price
  • Bumps add extra sensation, and helps keep plug from falling out.


  • Made from Jelly (porous material)
  • Too large for beginners
  • No taper
  • No dent between flaired end and plug



What makes an anal toy safe:

  • Flaired end or long handle, preventing the inner sphincter from sucking the toy into anal cavity.
  • Made of a material that wont break/doesnt have peices that can come apart.


~Whimsical 😉


Kegel Balls & Pelvic Floor Exercisers

Why do Kegel Exercises?

Kegel exercises strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.

Benefits of this are:

  • Tighten Vagina
  • Strengthen orgasm
  • Prevent accidental urination (like peeing when you sneeze, cough, jump on a trampoline)
  • Help hold in farts

You can do exercises with or without Kegal Exercisers. These are the set of muscles that you use to stop peeing midstream.

Benefits of using Kegal Balls:

  • Natural vibration from weighed ball withing the kegel balls from most sets
  • Can cause orgasm for some women
  • Provides more direct proof of pelvic floor strengthening
  • Physical reminder to continue exercising

I personally couldn’t do it without having something in me to help me recognize that I’m actually achieving something. So I bought the LOE Ladies Only Edition Kegel Set.



I’m a huge fan of Kegal sets. And I’m a bigger fan of these two specifically.

LOE Ladies Only Edition: 

This set is made out of body safe non porous silicone. It comes with 4 kegal balls. Two about 1 1/2 inches wide the other two about 3/4 an inch wide. The first set you start with are the larger lighter set. This makes it easier to keep them in.


Geisha Balls: The lightest colour is the lightest weight, the darkest colour is the heaviest

With all kegal sets, you start with the kegal balls with the least weight. As you get stronger (and you will) you move to the heavier balls in the set.

Both these sets have a silicone holder. This allows for easy removal, also can provide a way to do more exercises. One of my favourites is pulling on the string for a couple seconds while holding my kegel muscles.

The Minna kGoal.

It is made out of silicone, have a one year warentee and are rechargable. You place the larger part of the kGoal into the vagina, (the kgoal can deflate and reinflate) and you work your muscles with it. The lighter you squeeze the lighter it vibrates. The stronger you squeeze the stronger it vibrates back. This stimulates the gspot. I consider this a pleasure reward system for kegal exercises.


The Magic Banana – Made by a doctor, and a yoga fanatic.


This is nice for people who plan to do there kegal exercises at home. You squeeze the loops place inside and work your kegal muscles while able to see the loop move as you press. Good for the visual kegal exerciser.



The Electric Eric by Mystim. Good for electric play, and for pelvic floor muscles.

If your having difficulty with pelvic floor exercises, estim is good for “waking up” the pelvic floor. It works pretty well, doesn’t require much thought at first. After using this, when you can control your muscles more, you can go back to a kegal set or other methods, or continue using this. Who knows, Maybe you’ll like estim for more than just pelvic floor strengthening.


Here’s to the future…


Lady uses pelvic floor muscles to hold surf board.



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